A lovely tradition that has gone on for generations in Italy is alive and well here in Palazzo San Gervasio. The "Serenata" takes place the night before the wedding. The groom will walk to the brides house and with the courage and support of all his friends, family and neighbors he will profess his love for the bride and ask for her hand in marriage. Of course we know in this day and age the wedding has been set by all parties but what fun is there in that? So the groom must go through all the motions with the whole town watching as he sings to her, courts her and waits for her response. This is the time for the bride to be to add suspense to the night. Will she or won't she accept the proposal?
We are so happy to be with Vita and excited for our first "Serenata"
In the early evening hours preparation starts to speed up. Delivery and set up for all the food to be served tonight starts to progress. The kitchen soon becomes the holding stations for endless trays of goodies.
We were amazed by all the food only to find out that between 200-300 family, friends and all the neighborhood have been invited to join in on the celebration tonight.
as the sun was setting more and more people began to arrive and take their place along the street in front of Vita's house.
The excitement grows as the groom arrives. That's Nicola in the white shirt.
Now the D.J. coaxes the crowd to clap and wave their hands to help the groom woo his bride.
With flowers and microphone in hand Nicola starts his pleas for Vita to be his wife. All eyes are looking up to the balcony doors to see if Vita will come out and accept him as her husband to be.
The crowd is now chanting "Vita, Vita, Vita" and Nicola is singing out, "Ti Voglia bene!" I love you.
The suspense mounts and the balcony doors open but ....a big owl flys out and still NO Vita!
The children are waiting patiently and asking will she come out now?
Ooooh wait the doors are opening, "Is it Vita?"
No this times it's just a big doll! Oh That Vita is playing coy.
At last Vita comes out and the crowd cheers and pleas for her to come down and be with Nicola!
Nicola and Vita are at last reunited downstairs much to Nicola's relief! Let the party begin!
Here family members look on happily!
Bring out the food
The party will not begin until about 9:00 tonight so we have plenty of time to take a walk through town and have a wonderful opportunity to see the beautiful art museum and to have a special tour with one of the owners.
Ooooh wait the doors are opening, "Is it Vita?"
1 comment:
Wow - what a fabulous experience for you to have been a part of. It's wodnerful to see how other cultures recognize the various milestones in life . . .
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