Sunday, March 22, 2009

Seth Godin







I was watching an interview with Seth Godin in which he said many things that "resonated in me."
Towards the end of the interview he was asked about why he didn't participate in things like "my space" and "twitter".
It wasn't a condescending look at either of these two phenomenons. It was more of how he focuses on his usage of time and chooses what is best for him.
The "why" boiled down to that fact that it would take him a great amount of effort and time to learn and/or participate in something that would take away from his time doing what he is really good at and enjoys doing. Doing those things also decrease the amount of little time left for what he wants to do.
He said, "I picked my thing and I'm good at that. I enjoy being good at that."
If I chose to spend my time in those other ways then,
"I am a wandering generality instead of a meaningful specific."
These words got to me,
"Be a meaningful specific..."
I liked the sound of that.

Some quotes by Seth Godin (a bestselling author, entrepreneur and agent of change):
"How Dare You?How can you squander even one more day not taking advantage of the greatest shifts of our generation? How dare you settle for less when the world has made it so easy for you to be remarkable? "
Seth Godin
Source: small is the new big

"There's a myth that all you need to do is outline your vision and prove it's right—then, quite suddenly, people will line up and support you.
In fact, the opposite is true. Remarkable visions and genuine insight are always met with resistance. And when you start to make progress, your efforts are met with even more resistance. Products, services, career paths... whatever it is, the forces for mediocrity will align to stop you, forgiving no errors and never backing down until it's over.
If it were any other way, it would be easy. And if it were any other way, everyone would do it and your work would ultimately be devalued. The yin and yang are clear: without people pushing against your quest to do something worth talking about, it's unlikely it would be worth the journey.
Persist."

Seth Godin Source: The Forces of Mediocrity: http://sethgodin.typepad.com








Saturday, March 21, 2009

25 Romantic Things To Do in Paris

Along the Seine, Concierge on Ile de la Cite





25 Romantic Things to do in Paris" was taken from an article from the blog "In the Kitchen and on the Road with Dorie"

I have only done a few of the things on the list and will have to draft my own personal favorite things to do in Paris. It is easy to feel romantic in this beautiful city, easy even without a list. All you have to do is walk along the Seine, see the Eiffel tower, people watch from a sidewalk cafe, stroll and pinch yourself because YOU are there!

So here is the list from this website:http://www.doriegreenspan.com/dorie_greenspan/2009/02/as-i-wrote-on-leites-culinaria-this-valentines-week-when-my-friend-david-leite-asked-me-to-guest-blog-a-postcard-from-pa.html

25 ideas for making Paris even more unbearably romantic than it already is. If you've got more ideas, please add them.

1. Go to a crowded bistro and pretend you're the only people there. You can try this out at two of my favorite places, Fish, La Boissonerie (69 rue de Seine, Paris 6), and Le Bistrot Paul-Bert.

2. Take time to have tea. Have a grand tea complete with piano music and stunning flowers at the Hotel George V; tea made from first-rate tea at Mariage Freres (they import and blend it themselves); or tea with a little pastry upstairs in the blue velvet and silk room at Laduree on the rue Jacob.

3. Walk around the Luxembourg Gardens, magnificent at any time of year (the circuit is only about a mile, so it's doable no matter the weather), and finish by stopping into a cafe for a vin chaud, mulled wine. I like to stop at either Au Petit Suisse, across from the park and the Odeon Theatre, or Cafe Tournon, near the Senat.

4. Have a big plate of oysters at the tiny Regis (where they only serve oysters), or splurge on a towering seafood platter at Le Dome. Eat with your fingers, slurp the liquor from the oysters and drink Chablis, Sancerre, Muscadet or lots of Champagne.

5. Watch the sun set from the Pont des Arts.

6. Have a leisurely lunch. Lunch is such a luxury, especially if you're a tourist with a long to-do list, but there's nothing lovelier than stopping in the middle of the day for something sybaritic. The two most romantic splurges for lunch are the Jules Verne, Alain Ducasse's restaurant in the Eiffel Tower, and Le Grand Vefour in the gorgeous gardens of the Palais Royale. Le Grand Vefour is the oldest continuously operating restaurant in Paris and it's beautiful, the service is perfect and every seat is named for a patron of the past. Once I was seated at the Empress Eugenie's place (which meant my husband would have been Napoleon III) and another time I was in Gigi, Julie de Carneilha, and Chance Acquaintances: Three Short Novels' target=_blank>Colette 's seat (be still my heart). A stroll down the garden's tree-lined allees is the perfect way to cap lunch. For a far, far less extravagant lunch, my favorite place is Le Comptoir (but it doesn't take reservations -- aarrrgh).

7. Buy chocolate-covered marshmallows at Pierre Marcolini or something with praline at Patrick Roger, two of the city's best chocolatiers.

8. Drink hot chocolate every chance you get. The richest chocolat chaud is at Angelina's.

9. Have anything -- oh, if only you could have everything -- at Pierre Herme, hands-down the best and most exciting patissier in Paris and no, I'm not impartial. If you've never had the Ispahan macaron -- rose, raspberry and litchi -- you must.

10. Have a glass of Champagne for no other reason than because you can.

11. Buy a bag of (the absolutely fabulous) chocolate-covered Sauternes-soaked raisins from Da Rosa and eat them in bed.

12. Visit Sartre and de Beauvoir's tombs at the Montparnasse Cemetery, which is a fascinating place, or go see Proust at Pere Lachaise Cemetery, another beautiful place (but much larger, so you might want to wait until the weather's a bit warmer).

13. Set off without a map, get thoroughly lost and celebrate your freedom at the closest cafe.

14. Go to the Jacquemart-Andre Museum and imagine that you live there. Of course you can do this at Versailles, but it's easier at the palatially cozy J-A.

15. Buy a slice or two from several kinds of terrines from master charcutier Gilles Verot (3 rue Notre-Dames des Champs, Paris 6) and have a picnic in your hotel room.

16. Get a bottle of wine from La Derniere Goutte, one of Paris's best and most interesting wine shops (everyone there speaks English), to go with those terrines.

17. Take an evening cruise up the Seine in a Bateau Mouche. Sure it's a touristy thing to do, but I figure if it was good enough for Cary Grant and Audrey Hepburn in Charade, then it's good enough for me.

18. If you can't take the cruise, stand on the Quai opposite Notre Dame (the Left Bank side) and wait for a Bateau Mouche to sail by and shine its lights on the church -- the effect makes you catch your breath no matter how many times you see it.

19. Visit Claire Damon's pastry shop, Des Gateaux et du Pain. Damon is one of the few, I want to say only, but I'm not sure, French women with her own world-class patisserie. There's something lovely, light and, yes, feminine about everything she makes, even her breads.

20. Go to Berthillon and have one ice cream sundae with two spoons. If you and whomever you're with can agree on what flavors to have, you'll know it's true love.

21. Have a drink at the sumptuous Bar 228 in the Hotel Meurice or at The Ritz's Hemingway Bar. It will cost as much as a dinner, but it will be memorable.

22. Window-shop along the Faubourg Saint-Honore and finish with a fancifully decorated eclair at Fauchon.

23. Buy a scented candle at Diptyque and keep it burning late into the night.

24. Head for Poilane and buy not one, not two, not a dozen, but a sack full of their buttery cookies. After all, when it comes to love, nothing beats abundance.

25. Go back to Pierre Herme and buy just one more macaron to share.

Friday, March 20, 2009

Paris

photo courtesy of Brenda (see her blog: http://www.slowtrav.com/blog/bge/)




Athena Paris December 2008


Daniele and Aria, Paris Springtime 2008

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore.
Dream.
Discover.” - Mark Twain

La vie en rose - A tribute to Édith Piaf

We were sailing down the Seine, a summer night in 1999...warm breezes, the bridges overhead, the lights reflecting on the water, lovers strolling along the river banks... everything whispered romance. Could it be any other way in the city of lights? Ahh, Paris.

The Starling Diner-Belmont Heights, Long Beach








I had to get up early yesterday for my annual mammogram and dexascan check-up. This is a hint for all of you ladies...if you haven't made your yearly check-up please do it. I was finished by 8:30. To be honest my morale has been dragging abit these days and that's unusual for me. My posts are for the most part about being positive because that's the way I want to lead my life. Lately, though, because of reflecting on the loss of my mom and of now letting go of the family home I've been feeling a bit sad, well more than a bit... alot. It's only natural I think and I've allowed myself this time to feel the blues. Anyway, yesterday, after the early morning appointment I wanted to treat myself to breakfast out. I thought about some girlfriends and wondered if I should make an impromptu call to see if they'd like to join me. Then I thought, "no", today feels like a quiet "me" day. I've never been one to mind going to a restaurant to eat alone or take in a movie alone. Sometimes it feels okay to be in the company of myself...in fact sometimes I need it. I knew just the place to go. The "Starling Diner". Here is the website, take a peek: http://starlingdiner.com/index.htm

This is a little of what is written about the diner:
"Neighborhoods are better served when there are places where neighbors, families and friends can casually gather over a cup of coffee, a good meal or a glass of wine. That’s where Starling comes in.
Created by and staffed by people who love and live in Long Beach, we’ve come together because it is important to us that neighborhood joints exist and thrive. A place to think, have a bite to eat and a table to spread out the Sunday paper is- in our minds- a necessity for the pursuit of happiness.
Belmont Heights is perfect for a place like Starling. People know their neighbors, they take walks and they know good food when they taste it. Come on in, dine in comfort and meet some of the other people that live in your part of the world.
Starling has landed in your backyard. Enjoy yourself-your table is waiting…"

I love this place. If you are in Long Beach go here for wonderful food, lovely simple ambiance and well prepared food at affordable prices. (Presentations of food are lovely). I had the most relaxing morning. It made me so happy to be in a place that feels like you're at home. I had a magazine to read, a good cup of steaming hot coffee (waitresses are so wonderful and refill your cup without you asking). The music was so beautiful too. I had to ask what cd it was and I was brought the cd cover. "Celso Fonseca Natural". The post that follows is a YouTube sample of what I heard this morning. So imagine my happiness as I sat in a great little cozy neighborhood diner, room filled with soft bossa nova tunes, hot coffee, my freshly baked scones with lemon curd and a big breakfast. Who could stay blue for long with this kind of beginning to the day? Life is full of joy...you just have to find yours.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Samba e Tudo - Celso Fonseca - 7x Bossa Nova

Good Morning music to soothe your heart.

Quotes to lift the spirit


Porta del Paradiso-Florence, Italy
Those of you that know me, are aware that my siblings and I have been clearing out our parents home in order to rent or sell the property. In doing so I have found many of my stored old possessions. The other day I found the beautiful bible I was given when I was baptised in my church. I remember when I received it and what a treasure it was in a gold colored box. White leather with a zipper, still in perfect condition. In those years I kept the new bible in its' original box and read from the tattered black bible I had always used for church. Finding this beautiful bible reminded me of how often I found solace in reading it. Here are some passages which give me a sense of peace even today. I'll share them with you too.
Passages from the Bible that may lift you up:

You say: 'It's impossible' God says: All things are possible (Luke 18:27)

You say: 'I'm too tired' God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)

You say: 'Nobody really loves me' God says: I love you (John 3:1 6 & John 3:34 )

You say: 'I can't go on' God says: My grace is sufficient (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)

You say: 'I can't figure things out' God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5- 6)

You say: 'I can't do it' God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13)

You say: 'I'm not able' God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8)

You say: 'It's not worth it' God says: It will be worth it (Roman 8:28 )

You say: 'I can't forgive myself' God says: I Forgive you (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)

You say: 'I can't manage' God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)

You say: 'I'm afraid' God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7)

You say: 'I'm always worried and frustrated' God says: Cast all your cares on ME (I Peter 5:7)

You say: 'I'm not smart enough' God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)

You say: 'I feel all alone' God says: I will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)
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